Comments for 生命河家庭事工資源網 http://rolcc-fm.net ROLCC Family Ministry Resource Center Sun, 27 Sep 2009 06:36:55 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 Comment on 2009 0-5 Years Parenting (0-5歲幼兒親子教育) 部落格 by Hannah Zhang http://rolcc-fm.net/2009-0to5yearsparenting/#comment-27 Hannah Zhang Sun, 27 Sep 2009 06:36:55 +0000 http://rolccfmevents.wordpress.com/?page_id=68#comment-27 １７月的宝宝可以吗？ １７月的宝宝可以吗？

]]> Comment on 黃維仁博士[親密之旅] 北美(實習)小組長 部落格 by Grace Chiao http://rolcc-fm.net/jtileaders/#comment-12 Grace Chiao Thu, 24 Sep 2009 04:21:48 +0000 http://rolccfmevents.wordpress.com/?page_id=5#comment-12 From our last three follow up meetings, all members watched the DVD for that session before attend the meeting. We had very productive discussion and role play. In my opinion, it will not be difficult to lead a group of members who are not JTI trained nor MER alumni, if they learn the concepts first from the DVD at home then review and practice the exercises at meeting. From our last three follow up meetings, all members watched the DVD for that session before attend the meeting. We had very productive discussion and role play.
In my opinion, it will not be difficult to lead a group of members who are not JTI trained nor MER alumni, if they learn the concepts first from the DVD at home then review and practice the exercises at meeting.

]]> Comment on 黃維仁博士[親密之旅] 北美(實習)小組長 部落格 by John http://rolcc-fm.net/jtileaders/#comment-11 John Tue, 22 Sep 2009 04:21:55 +0000 http://rolccfmevents.wordpress.com/?page_id=5#comment-11 I apology being late joining the 3rd JTI follow up meeting yesterday. Do we have any experience/comment sharing about if JTI material is suitable (easy or difficult) to lead a group whose members are NOT JTI trained (nor MER alumni)? I apology being late joining the 3rd JTI follow up meeting yesterday.

Do we have any experience/comment sharing about if JTI material is suitable (easy or difficult) to lead a group whose members are NOT JTI trained (nor MER alumni)?

]]> Comment on 黃維仁博士[親密之旅] 北美(實習)小組長 部落格 by chunling liu http://rolcc-fm.net/jtileaders/#comment-10 chunling liu Mon, 21 Sep 2009 20:22:15 +0000 http://rolccfmevents.wordpress.com/?page_id=5#comment-10 Praise the Lor. we were very blessed in this discussion. Everyone was participating very actively. Here is the book we had used as a reference, sold $9.72 on amazon: What Type Am I?: The Myers-Brigg Type Indication Made Easy by Author Renee Baron. To run test, use this link: http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/JTypes2.asp The subject we lead was "differnce and conflict". Dr. Huang used Myer's brigg test as introduction. Even though Eric and I married 10 years, we thought we had same temperament until recently. After test, we found that we were only 38% match, so primarily different. It was the humble and trust that made us two different person in harmony. We find in discussion group that few couple have same temperament. Many are different. Since most of us had gone through MER and FVC training, we are conciously improving our way to deal conflict from fight/flight/freeze/sumit to win-win. Some shared intermidiate step they take to achieve win-win. Praise the Lor. we were very blessed in this discussion. Everyone was participating very actively.

Here is the book we had used as a reference, sold $9.72 on amazon:

What Type Am I?: The Myers-Brigg Type Indication Made Easy by Author Renee Baron.

To run test, use this link:
http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/JTypes2.asp

The subject we lead was “differnce and conflict”. Dr. Huang used Myer’s brigg test as introduction. Even though Eric and I married 10 years, we thought we had same temperament until recently. After test, we found that we were only 38% match, so primarily different. It was the humble and trust that made us two different person in harmony. We find in discussion group that few couple have same temperament. Many are different. Since most of us had gone through MER and FVC training, we are conciously improving our way to deal conflict from fight/flight/freeze/sumit to win-win. Some shared intermidiate step they take to achieve win-win.

]]> Comment on 2009 0-5 Years Parenting (0-5歲幼兒親子教育) 部落格 by Jessie Wu http://rolcc-fm.net/2009-0to5yearsparenting/#comment-26 Jessie Wu Sat, 22 Aug 2009 00:00:46 +0000 http://rolccfmevents.wordpress.com/?page_id=68#comment-26 看到這麼小的baby 這樣哭，真的好不拾。 她真的可以從小睡時間開始哭到下一餐。 我知道如果我抱她起來，不再放回小床上， 她一定可以馬上睡著的。 一直在和自已交戰，到底要不要堅持下去PDf？ 希望現在的狠心是值得的.... 看到這麼小的baby 這樣哭，真的好不拾。 她真的可以從小睡時間開始哭到下一餐。 我知道如果我抱她起來，不再放回小床上， 她一定可以馬上睡著的。 一直在和自已交戰，到底要不要堅持下去PDf？
希望現在的狠心是值得的….

]]> Comment on 黃維仁博士[親密之旅] 北美(實習)小組長 部落格 by John http://rolcc-fm.net/jtileaders/#comment-9 John Thu, 20 Aug 2009 20:22:22 +0000 http://rolccfmevents.wordpress.com/?page_id=5#comment-9 Are there any points that we should avoid during the role play, sharing after the video viewing? I am more interested to know more about people's "negative" experience, so that we don't repeat the problem areas. Are there any points that we should avoid during the role play, sharing after the video viewing?

I am more interested to know more about people’s “negative” experience, so that we don’t repeat the problem areas.

]]> Comment on 黃維仁博士[親密之旅] 北美(實習)小組長 部落格 by 江純真 http://rolcc-fm.net/jtileaders/#comment-8 江純真 Wed, 19 Aug 2009 06:14:33 +0000 http://rolccfmevents.wordpress.com/?page_id=5#comment-8 當上完這次『親密之旅』的培訓課程後，心中覺得非常喜悅與滿足。就好像終於把一堆亂成一團的圖片通通拼成一個完美的圖案(puzzle)的那種滿足感。過去三年黃維仁博士在家新同工退修會中把他多年來的研究心得，以親切實用的技巧、深入簡出的方式教導我們。在這次培訓中又看到黃博士的用心，很有系統的把過去的教導組合起來，以連串性的思考，環環相扣的把艱深的心理學理論，加上聖經的原則，化為實際又有說服力的教導，使我有機會組織自己這幾年來的學習。 感謝神! 在上完培訓課程的一個月內，家庭事工同工們開始了『親密之旅』培訓課程跟進小組。以下是上完第一堂課的一些感想: 1. 我們在一個半小時的時間內上完這堂課，內容很多，整個流程實在非常的趕。所以一定要安排好足夠的時間讓小組組員有充餘的時間踴躍討論。 2. 在這堂課的討論練習時段，我們分成男生組和女生組進行互動來討論迷戀與真愛的差異，效果非常好。互動太重要了! 黃博士教導的精華在於他精心設計的互動練習，由這些實際的演練中帶進群體治療 (group therapy) 的效果。 3. 另一個感想是帶領者角色的重要性。當組員願意開口講出他心中的感受時，要以同理心回應鼓勵支持，因這是組員給出的一份真誠禮物。 盼望這跟進小組在未來的一年繼續一起學習這美好的〝親密之旅〞，裝備自己更多的成長，並且可以正確的技巧幫助我們週圍需要幫助的人，使更多的人、以及更多的家庭得以堅固。也希望這個部落格能成為我們彼此支持、交換心得的地方。 當上完這次『親密之旅』的培訓課程後，心中覺得非常喜悅與滿足。就好像終於把一堆亂成一團的圖片通通拼成一個完美的圖案(puzzle)的那種滿足感。過去三年黃維仁博士在家新同工退修會中把他多年來的研究心得，以親切實用的技巧、深入簡出的方式教導我們。在這次培訓中又看到黃博士的用心，很有系統的把過去的教導組合起來，以連串性的思考，環環相扣的把艱深的心理學理論，加上聖經的原則，化為實際又有說服力的教導，使我有機會組織自己這幾年來的學習。

感謝神! 在上完培訓課程的一個月內，家庭事工同工們開始了『親密之旅』培訓課程跟進小組。以下是上完第一堂課的一些感想:
1. 我們在一個半小時的時間內上完這堂課，內容很多，整個流程實在非常的趕。所以一定要安排好足夠的時間讓小組組員有充餘的時間踴躍討論。
2. 在這堂課的討論練習時段，我們分成男生組和女生組進行互動來討論迷戀與真愛的差異，效果非常好。互動太重要了! 黃博士教導的精華在於他精心設計的互動練習，由這些實際的演練中帶進群體治療 (group therapy) 的效果。
3. 另一個感想是帶領者角色的重要性。當組員願意開口講出他心中的感受時，要以同理心回應鼓勵支持，因這是組員給出的一份真誠禮物。

盼望這跟進小組在未來的一年繼續一起學習這美好的〝親密之旅〞，裝備自己更多的成長，並且可以正確的技巧幫助我們週圍需要幫助的人，使更多的人、以及更多的家庭得以堅固。也希望這個部落格能成為我們彼此支持、交換心得的地方。

]]> Comment on 2009 0-5 Years Parenting (0-5歲幼兒親子教育) 部落格 by Mommy Juggler http://rolcc-fm.net/2009-0to5yearsparenting/#comment-25 Mommy Juggler Tue, 11 Aug 2009 09:46:25 +0000 http://rolccfmevents.wordpress.com/?page_id=68#comment-25 思音的回答很中肯。身為三個孩子的媽(全餵母奶)，我只有一個提醒： PDF 要作得有彈性，以免傷害孩子健康。現在很多美國護士(Registered Nurse;RN) 已不推薦PDF，甚至強烈反對，就是因為多個此種案例。 每個孩子都是上帝獨特的傑作，個性都不同。PDF 大原則立意很好，但是就像大人調時差，要一段時間，而且每個人需要的時間不同。所以別著急。 記得我們家老大出生，我們非常認真執行書上的教導，常讓他哭30-45分鐘才入睡。等有了老二，發現居然有baby意志力如此驚人。可以哭10分鐘，睡10分鐘，如此交替直到下一餐。於是改變對策。只讓他哭5分鐘就抱起來，輕輕和他說說話，2-3分鐘後放回小床就睡穩了。讓我們對老大好抱歉、好捨不得。讓他哭太久了！ 還有，仔細聽孩子的哭聲，慢慢可以分辨原因。肚子餓和尿布髒、不舒服的哭法不太一樣。吃飽了肚子有空氣、需要burp，又是另一種哭聲。我們家幸福的老三就非常少哭，平靜安穩。因為需求已適時滿足。 求神給我們智慧去適時瞭解、並滿足孩子的需要，加上為他祝福禱告(pray that God gives him a contented spirit)，情況會越來越容易的。寶寶很快就長大了，他一輩子就只這個時期100%需要媽媽，願妳在忙累之餘，好好"享受"這段時光！ 思音的回答很中肯。身為三個孩子的媽(全餵母奶)，我只有一個提醒：
PDF 要作得有彈性，以免傷害孩子健康。現在很多美國護士(Registered Nurse;RN) 已不推薦PDF，甚至強烈反對，就是因為多個此種案例。
每個孩子都是上帝獨特的傑作，個性都不同。PDF 大原則立意很好，但是就像大人調時差，要一段時間，而且每個人需要的時間不同。所以別著急。
記得我們家老大出生，我們非常認真執行書上的教導，常讓他哭30-45分鐘才入睡。等有了老二，發現居然有baby意志力如此驚人。可以哭10分鐘，睡10分鐘，如此交替直到下一餐。於是改變對策。只讓他哭5分鐘就抱起來，輕輕和他說說話，2-3分鐘後放回小床就睡穩了。讓我們對老大好抱歉、好捨不得。讓他哭太久了！
還有，仔細聽孩子的哭聲，慢慢可以分辨原因。肚子餓和尿布髒、不舒服的哭法不太一樣。吃飽了肚子有空氣、需要burp，又是另一種哭聲。我們家幸福的老三就非常少哭，平靜安穩。因為需求已適時滿足。
求神給我們智慧去適時瞭解、並滿足孩子的需要，加上為他祝福禱告(pray that God gives him a contented spirit)，情況會越來越容易的。寶寶很快就長大了，他一輩子就只這個時期100%需要媽媽，願妳在忙累之餘，好好”享受”這段時光！

]]> Comment on 2009 0-5 Years Parenting (0-5歲幼兒親子教育) 部落格 by Kailin Wang http://rolcc-fm.net/2009-0to5yearsparenting/#comment-24 Kailin Wang Mon, 10 Aug 2009 17:02:07 +0000 http://rolccfmevents.wordpress.com/?page_id=68#comment-24 As a parent of 2-year-old, I know it's hard to find a good preschool that you can trust to send you beloved child(ren) to with the peace of mind. But luckily I just found a good one and would like to share the info with ou. I'm not sure if this is appropraite but I am trying to help a sister to recruit some studetns for her soon-to-start home-based preschool in Sunnyvale. Her name is Florence. She goes to another international church. She was born in Taiwan but immigrated when she was little. She is a nice, loving Christian with clear vision and experiences in early education and character-building in Christianity for the preschool that she is starting. If you are looking for a preschool in the area, please check it out. Or maybe you can help distribute the info below to the parents that you think might be interested. Thank you in advance! ************************************************** We are opening a new home-based Christian bilingual (English and Mandarin Chinese) preschool in Sunnyvale this coming fall for children between the ages of 2-5. Our focus will be to Provide a warm, loving, and safe environment for your child Foster a love of learning in your child Establish a strong academic foundation in a fun and engaging manner Promote Christian values and character development Provide parents with a peace of mind Exceptional care at a competitive rate. Currently we are offering an incentive discounts for early enrollment. If you would like further information, please do not hesitate to contact me @ florencetang99@yahoo.com or 408-730-5266 (home). I would love to talk with you! A little about me: I have a Masters degree in Counseling and worked for 5 years at a Christian counseling center before raising my two school-age children. I have had years of experience teaching preschoolers in Sunday School and at Bible Study Fellowship. More recently I have been teaching full time at a home-based preschool and at KidzArt. I love to see the uniqueness of each child and to draw out their gifts and potential. Each one is indeed “fearfully and wonderfully” made. Florence ********************************************* As a parent of 2-year-old, I know it’s hard to find a good preschool that you can trust to send you beloved child(ren) to with the peace of mind. But luckily I just found a good one and would like to share the info with ou.

I’m not sure if this is appropraite but I am trying to help a sister to recruit some studetns for her soon-to-start home-based preschool in Sunnyvale.

Her name is Florence. She goes to another international church. She was born in Taiwan but immigrated when she was little. She is a nice, loving Christian with clear vision and experiences in early education and character-building in Christianity for the preschool that she is starting. If you are looking for a preschool in the area, please check it out. Or maybe you can help distribute the info below to the parents that you think might be interested.
Thank you in advance!

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We are opening a new home-based Christian bilingual (English and Mandarin Chinese) preschool in Sunnyvale this coming fall for children between the ages of 2-5. Our focus will be to
Provide a warm, loving, and safe environment for your child
Foster a love of learning in your child
Establish a strong academic foundation in a fun and engaging manner
Promote Christian values and character development
Provide parents with a peace of mind
Exceptional care at a competitive rate. Currently we are offering an incentive discounts for early enrollment.

If you would like further information, please do not hesitate to contact me @ florencetang99@yahoo.com or 408-730-5266 (home). I would love to talk with you!

A little about me: I have a Masters degree in Counseling and worked for 5 years at a Christian counseling center before raising my two school-age children. I have had years of experience teaching preschoolers in Sunday School and at Bible Study Fellowship. More recently I have been teaching full time at a home-based preschool and at KidzArt. I love to see the uniqueness of each child and to draw out their gifts and potential. Each one is indeed “fearfully and wonderfully” made.

Florence
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]]> Comment on theParentLink July Newsletter Blog by Kailin Wang http://rolcc-fm.net/theparentlink-july-newsletter-blog/#comment-29 Kailin Wang Mon, 10 Aug 2009 16:57:48 +0000 http://rolccfmevents.wordpress.com/?page_id=84#comment-29 I'm not sure if this is appropraite but I am trying to help a sister to recruit some studetns for her soon-to-start home-based preschool in Sunnyvale. Her name is Florence. She goes to another international church. She was born in Taiwan but immigrated when she was little. She is a nice, loving Christian with clear vision and experiences in early education and character-building in Christianity for the preschool that she is starting. If you are looking for a preschool in the area, please check it out. Or maybe you can help distribute the info below to the parents that you think might be interested. Thank you in advance! ************************************************** We are opening a new home-based Christian bilingual (English and Mandarin Chinese) preschool in Sunnyvale this coming fall for children between the ages of 2-5. Our focus will be to Provide a warm, loving, and safe environment for your child Foster a love of learning in your child Establish a strong academic foundation in a fun and engaging manner Promote Christian values and character development Provide parents with a peace of mind Exceptional care at a competitive rate. Currently we are offering an incentive discounts for early enrollment. If you would like further information, please do not hesitate to contact me @ florencetang99@yahoo.com or 408-730-5266 (home). I would love to talk with you! A little about me: I have a Masters degree in Counseling and worked for 5 years at a Christian counseling center before raising my two school-age children. I have had years of experience teaching preschoolers in Sunday School and at Bible Study Fellowship. More recently I have been teaching full time at a home-based preschool and at KidzArt. I love to see the uniqueness of each child and to draw out their gifts and potential. Each one is indeed "fearfully and wonderfully" made. Florence ********************************************* I’m not sure if this is appropraite but I am trying to help a sister to recruit some studetns for her soon-to-start home-based preschool in Sunnyvale.

Her name is Florence. She goes to another international church. She was born in Taiwan but immigrated when she was little. She is a nice, loving Christian with clear vision and experiences in early education and character-building in Christianity for the preschool that she is starting. If you are looking for a preschool in the area, please check it out. Or maybe you can help distribute the info below to the parents that you think might be interested.
Thank you in advance!

**************************************************

We are opening a new home-based Christian bilingual (English and Mandarin Chinese) preschool in Sunnyvale this coming fall for children between the ages of 2-5. Our focus will be to
Provide a warm, loving, and safe environment for your child
Foster a love of learning in your child
Establish a strong academic foundation in a fun and engaging manner
Promote Christian values and character development
Provide parents with a peace of mind
Exceptional care at a competitive rate. Currently we are offering an incentive discounts for early enrollment.

If you would like further information, please do not hesitate to contact me @ florencetang99@yahoo.com or 408-730-5266 (home). I would love to talk with you!

A little about me: I have a Masters degree in Counseling and worked for 5 years at a Christian counseling center before raising my two school-age children. I have had years of experience teaching preschoolers in Sunday School and at Bible Study Fellowship. More recently I have been teaching full time at a home-based preschool and at KidzArt. I love to see the uniqueness of each child and to draw out their gifts and potential. Each one is indeed “fearfully and wonderfully” made.

Florence
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